Recently, I've heard people talk about a friend of a friend whose third cousin twice removed sits beside a guy in shul who told him that he heard that there are swingers groups going on in the shul.
Yes, that is not new. I'm sure most of you reading this have heard these things before, but as you all know from reading my blog, I'm quite naive and innocent when it comes to subject matters such as these.
Specifically, I've heard it going on in shuls in 5-towns, Toronto, Far Rockaway and Brooklyn. Yes there are specific shuls that people talk about...and no, I'm not naming them here...but the membership must be very VERY expensive!! :)
I think they are all urban legends.
No one will actually come out and tell you they are part of such a group, and no one even knows anyone in such a group. It is always of the variety of lashon hara (yes, I know it might not be LH since, if it's true, they are a group od reshaim..evil ppl, so please don't comment on that since I went to yeshiva too :)) that I started this posting with...very indirect whispers.
At some point in the last 3400 did two jewish couples get together and swap? I'm sure they did!!!
Yes, being that there are rumors of specific synagogues might make one believe that they are true.
Notice that all the shuls on that infamous (or famous list) are more yeshivish type shuls...not completely, but you never hear of a modern shul with this happening.
Perhaps it could be some bias against sheitls and black hats...not sure.
The main reason I don't believe it is that I cannot fathom how that conversation starts among a couple.
Yes, I said many posts ago that a couple should be open and share their feelings and fantasies with each other. So maybe that's fine.
But I can't see how Moishy goes up to Shloimie during the mi sheberachs and says, "I really want to fuck your wife...but don't worry, you can fuck mine too"
I can't see that conversation taking place.
As I said, yes, it probably has taken place at some point. But that conversation taking place with 5 or 6 or 10 couples involved is UNIMAGINABLE!!!
There will be anonymous commenters on this post who I'm sure will write that they are involved in such a group...and I still won't believe it.
Either way, at this time of year, we have to realize that these groups are definitely an unholy alliance...so I HOPE they are urban legends.
Remember, if one is afraid of Yom Hadin, then he/she does not have to be afraid of Yom Hadin!!
Shana Tova
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